In Her Own Words
About her
Originally from London (South West), Unapologetically un-woke.
I have a sunny disposition and sustain a lust for life. Curious by nature and drawn to good conversation: new ideas, new experiences, and plenty of laughter. Well-travelled, well-lived, and a sucker for life's finer things. Great food, lively company, and the thrill of discovering somewhere new.
Influenced by thinkers like Douglas Murray and Ayaan Hirsi Ali.
I have a particular fondness for W. Somerset Maugham and the evocative world of his Far Eastern novels. My memorable time in Hong Kong pre-handover only deepened that appreciation; it's a remarkable city and, in my view, the true jewel in the crown of the East.
I am slim, active, and agile both physically and mentally. I’m determined to make the most of life and all the opportunities it offers. I’m secure in who I am, independently minded, and value both freedom and authenticity. I’m also incredibly caring, thoughtful, loyal, and passionate about the people I let close.
I love good conversation, easy chemistry, and that understated spark you only really notice when it’s there. I like things that feel natural, a little playful, and quietly compelling—the sort of connection that builds itself without trying too hard.
About her ideal match
I'm looking for a man who is comfortable in their own skin, thoughtful, kind, and generous, with a playful ability to laugh at both life and themselves.
Someone active, who takes care of themselves, enjoys good health, and doesn’t take life or themselves too seriously. I’m drawn to a spark of curiosity and adventure: whether that’s travelling to far-flung places, a spontaneous weekend escape, exploring a new city together, or finding a hidden gem just around the corner. Cosy nights in are just as appealing, especially with good food, great company and laughter. For me, the best moments are shared, easy conversation, unexpected laughter, real chemistry, and that effortless connection that makes ordinary days feel a little brighter and slip by without you noticing.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kensington & Chelsea (LONDON), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
47 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; IT / Telecoms | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Politics; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Boxing; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Yoga |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Only Older Singles: |
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |