In His Own Words
About him
Spiritual, not religious, of Indian Sikh heritage, and someone who values kindness, laughter, and staying grounded. I’m easy going and independent, adventurous at times, and happiest when I'm either sharing laughs with a great crowd or enjoying the peace of my own company. I also value intelligence and consider myself sapiosexual.
I love being outdoors—whether that’s walking along the coast, exploring the New Forest, out on the sea, or cycling through scenic routes. Staying active is a priority for me—physically, mentally, and emotionally. The gym helps keep me balanced, as does a good book, a great film, or a glass of red wine by the fire on a cold winter night.
I’m also a keen traveller—always planning or dreaming about my next destination.
About his ideal match
I’d love to meet a lovely lady to share laughs, adventures, and deeper moments with. Someone who values honesty, kindness, and authenticity. We all have stories—I'm not looking for perfect, just someone perfectly imperfect, who can keep their humour even when life gets messy.
I hope to find someone curious about the world, who’s active, emotionally aware, and who still believes in the magic of connection—someone who might just be my last first kiss.
– Please be genuine: honesty and recent photos go a long way.
- My pictures are from last 2 years, white t-shirt photo is from July 2025.
– I’m not into endless texting—chemistry and connection happen in real conversations and face-to-face moments.
– Looks may draw us in, but it’s humour, conversation, and shared values that make things last.
– Distance doesn’t worry me—finding the right person matters more than geography.
Here’s to finding something real, and maybe, just maybe—you’re out there reading this :-)
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bournemouth (Christchurch), Dorset, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Hindi | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
48 - 67 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 10" (147cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Light |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cycling; Dance; Horse Riding; Rowing; Running; Sailing; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Only Older Singles: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |