In Her Own Words
About her
I’m aiming for a partnership that uplifts us both, because that’s the only way it works.
I love Hello's not goodbyes. Arrivals not departures.
Independent, happy, single, tactile, and strong. I don’t fit boxes… and I’m not trying to.
Real, recent, unedited photos. Age almost accurate 😉
Nothing curated. Nothing fake. Just me.
I really love -
My children .
Good company and also rate alone-time.
Nature, animals, the ocean music, art. Creating things. Fixing things.
Authenticity.
Cooking for people I love. Laughing often.
Feeling loved and appreciated.
I’m easily tempted by small pleasures:
Surprises- good ones 😊
Champagne and oysters.
Sunrises and sunsets .
Warm fresh bread, real butter.
Music — always. If you make it, you’ll have my attention… and then some.
Star-gazer. Southern Cross loyalist. Sunshine in my bones.
I know what I want.
Be kind. Be curious. Make me smile — and maybe wonder … are you a good kisser ?
Drawn to a grounded, emotionally present man who’s actually ready for something real.
If you’re here for the endless swipe, we’re not each other’s people.
All photos taken within the last two years. My profile photo January 2026 …
About her ideal match
A kind, charismatic, emotionally aware and available man who is fully alive — curious, a little quirky, open to adventure, and mostly optimistic…. With a big pinch of realism….
He’s intelligent, loyal, active, and comfortable in his own skin. He takes care of himself, loves what he does, and looks quietly irresistible when he’s absorbed in it.
He laughs easily, values connection, family, and our fragile world, and is warm, tactile, generous in spirit, and fair.
He’s genuinely single, an animal and nature lover (non-negotiable), and ready to take something real off the screen and into life.
If this resonates and you feel a small spark — perhaps it’s time to say hello.
Bonus points if the idea of living by the sea makes you smile 😉
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About her
Country of origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
65 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Time |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
White |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Canoeing; Dance; Hiking; Sailing; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Honesty: |
Extremely |